Relationships play important roles in our lives. After a certain period, things start to get serious in the romantic relationships and it transforms into an actual relationship, a relationship where the idea of spending your entire life with this person becomes valid and understandable. But sometimes this cannot be achieved and the questions arises, “why not?”.
Ending a relationship is not easy, but staying with the wrong person all your life, sad and frustrated, is certainly not a good idea.
So here is a list of signs which will show you that it’s time for you to end your relationship.
You both have trust issues-
Trust is one of the most important pillar of any relationship, and when you lose trust in your partner, it’s time to end the relationship. You find yourself questioning every single thing such as your partner’s abilities, motives and reasons, tiny things such as why she is being so nice to you, to how much you trust her with something that is important to you. If there is distrust between you both, it can lead to breakdown of the foundations of the relationship, thus causing possessiveness, anger, jealousy and other negative feelings. Thus the best thing to do is to end the relationship.
Your values don’t match anymore with your partner-
Every individual has their own set of values such as security, an open marriage, freedom, a liberal family, etc. But when these values start to make your partner uncomfortable, it is a warning sign that is might be time to end your relationship. Every time you cannot compromise with your partner’s values, and once these start to create huge differences, it’s time to end the relationship.
You no longer make plans keeping your partner in mind-
Everyone loves making plans for trips and hangouts and you should always consider your significant other as a part of your plans. And if you don’t make them a part of your plans anymore, then this shows that you have slowly started to push your partner out of your life psychologically, and thus this shows that it’s time to actually remove them from your life. No longer making plans keeping your partner in mind shows that you no longer want your partner to be a big part of your life and so it’s time to end your relationship.
You no longer enjoy his company-
Relationships should be joyous and fun, if you are not being able to retrieve and reawaken the sense of fun with your partner, that you once shared with him or her, then it is certainly time to end the relationship.
You are not being able to see your future with your partner-
The most important aspect of being in a relationship is the beautiful idea of creating a future with your partner, shaping and designing your life and planning a proper future together. If you are not being able to imagine a future with your significant other, then it brings into consideration the question that why are you in this relationship to begin with. Thus it’s high time you should end the relationship and start searching for a stable one.